Monday, December 22, 2008

Change in Attitude

Since my departure from London to my home land, I have come across with many changes. Though I am reluctant to disclose the changes with every possibility to search the important factors that influence my journey, I have found for many changes attitude matters [throughout our personal and professional lives] the most. I structured many findings comparing to on the basis of religion, work, country, age and sex to the similar situation we have multiple reaction.

With many examples start from morning to evening [365x24x7], I discover attitude [spider-like structures] can be changed by a number of sources including people, neighbor, friend, family, business, media, or the object itself. All the factors who affect our behavioral attitude changes the way we think perform and react that can be temporary or it can be permanent. In simple way, People in all class always adopt, modify, and surrender attitudes to fit there ever-changing needs and interests. That can relate with our all actions for example, breaking rules, doing corruption, politics , or helping others, answering questions or setting up your mindset for good or bad activity.

Can I change the attitude?

At initial research, I discover attitude cannot be changed by simple education or giving good lessons. It is process of farming the root problem with positive behavior and that brings strong understanding of individual emotional cares. Change in attitude is more likely to occur if the suggestion is accompanied by change in other factors underlying belief and attitude.

Acceptance of new attitudes depends on who is presenting the knowledge, how it is presented, how the person is perceived, the credibility/experience of the communicator, and the conditions by which the knowledge was received. I noticed less committed people do change their ideas more frequently. They listen once and forget at second time for good follow up. We are more likely to accept information if we feel the communicator has no intent to change our attitudes and opinions.

I strongly recommend creating a positive attitude to every actions we responsible to; we have to respect others as a habit and must have attitude to learn from mistakes through repetition and conscious effort. Creating and maintaining a positive attitude is the most efficient and low-cost investment one we can make in order to change our life and bright sunshine to our daily life.

I wish everyone a ‘Merry Christmas’ and a ‘Happy New Year 2009’.

Mansing Bhor

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